Matchmaking is a professional business service for discerning singles, not Internet dating. Unlike online dating, all clients go through a face-to-face screening process, so we know everyone is real and sincere. Self-awareness. The typical mature woman I speak with is looking for a man who is emotionally evolved. He doesn't have to be in therapy or a men's group, but he does have to have worked through his issues. Women want men who are smart about themselves and about life. Find a place with live music (i.e., restaurants, bars, music halls). Attend an event and grab a drink. In crowded his explanation venues, it’s easy to meet single people. Take classes such as ballroom dancing, cooking, or painting. Meeting a new person through a friend can get you dating again. The key is building confidence. Or try pursuing mature dating online as an easy option.